Jon Barry Coldwell

On 13th November 2025, peacefully at his home, Jon Barry, aged 81 years of Padiham. The dearly loved and loving husband of Brenda, also a cherished and much loved relation and loyal friend to so many whose lives he touched.

Jon Barry was an exceptional man in every sense. A highly regarded forensic clinical psychologist, he spent many years at Calderstones, where his wisdom, compassion and steady guidance made a lasting difference. In his retirement, Jon Barry’s dedication to others continued through his private practice within the justice system, specialising in cases for the family courts. His work was driven not by recognition but by a profound desire to protect and support those who needed him most. In his younger years, Jon Barry was something of an action man — climbing, practising judo, completing the Three Peaks in an incredible 3.5 hours, and taking up skiing at the age of 40. Jon Barry and Brenda shared a wonderful partnership. Married for 47 years, their life together was rich with laughter, adventure and unwavering companionship. They explored the world, enjoying safaris, travelling on the Siberian Railway and creating memories and enjoying their adventures. They loved theatre, opera and cinema. An avid reader of different genres, Jon Barry loved his books and continuing his self education.

Jon was a beautiful and gentle man, compassionate, generous, and quiet. He could easily have been his own hero, yet he chose instead to be a steady, reassuring presence, making a difference softly and without fuss. He disliked gossip, sought the good in everything, and met life with thanks for all he had. Each day, Jon Barry and Brenda gave thanks for the blessings they shared, especially the gift of their cherished friends, friendships nurtured, valued and held close over many years.

Jon Barry had a wicked sense of humour, he could be very silly and made people laugh, even offering to swop Freddie (aged 10) at the cinema for a bag of popcorn.

During Jon Barry’s final weeks and months, Brenda is deeply grateful for the compassion shown by everyone who cared for him. Heartfelt thanks go to the district nurses and to Pendleside Hospice at Home for their kindness and support. Sincere thanks to the Roots Health carers, and a special expression of gratitude to Prof. James Fleming and the staff at Padiham Medical Centre for their exceptional care.

Jon Barry was, and will remain, a much loved man whose kindness, integrity and loving heart will continue to live on in all those who were blessed to share a part of his life. Remembered with love today and always.